"A Real Marriage!"

When a married couple has sex, love, and romance in their marriage, marriage life is smooth sailing.  It's just so obvious without anyone ignorance or indifference in the relationship on the subjects of sex, love, and romance.

"Appreciation Of The Small Things!"

 Relationships involve the whole entire families and communities.  One is certainly on the right track of seeing one's own vision in living color.  We always look up to others for the answers when the answers we are searching for are within ourselves.  It is going to be alright with plenty of laughter as well as the cold tears to be shared.  May God continue to be with us, and may we continue to be with God.

"Keep Believing!"

My thoughts and prayers are with the families, friends, and communities of the victims of Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT. May we all find comfort in faith of peace, and may we all have the courage to keep strong.    

"Love Will!"

Love will make you do foolish, foolish things.  Sit around by the fireplace hoping the telephone will ring.  Love has two sides. It loves me; it loves me not.  Love don't love nobody because love don't love me.  If you let love get you down, love will hold you down.  Love is; wait a minute.  High off of love, love will make your love come down.  Sometimes, you got to fight to get it right.  It's a thin line between love and hate.  The heart can be treacherous. 

Learn the art of love in its many, many forgiving ways. 

"Battleship Of Love!"

Well, I know this to be a fact from what I have seen and heard.  One thing you don't do is fight over a woman or a man because if it that little situation does not go fatally; it will go sour.  The very person you are fighting over should have a better handle on that situation.  If it should go down that way, nine times out of ten, it is that very person who stirred up that very pot, and that very person is not safe either.  Stop the violence.

"Don't Disturb This Groove!"

I do believe; it can be most difficult to remain in a loving relationship when the love is there less alone when the love is gone.  I am beginning to think if a couple do stay together for the sake of the children then it really not for the sake of the children anyway.  They are now living together as roommates, and if they should get that "ole loving feeling" which is not that often, I suspect, than so be it.  They are married and to live as roommates well anything goes. 

It can not be so much of the children's self-esteem as much as it is for one of the parents' self-esteem.  To bear such emotional and mental abuse, is just an excuse for not wanting to let go.  The children will be fine whether the parents are living together or not.

We all have to learn to take a break from unhealthy love sometime or another.  In order to do that, we must know and like ourselves well enough to know that we must learn to enjoy our own company first.

"A Ribbon In The Sky!"

There is always love in the air for lovers, sweethearts if you may.  They give each other their utmost best.  They are caring and loving to one another, and they cheer each other on in a sweet and loving way.  They always think of each other in a positivity way.  They are never too far from one another.  The birds seem to sing when ever they are near.  They got the month of May!

"Our Love!"

 I believe it is better for married couples to live their marriage morally right in God eyes, and they should try to live their lives according to God's teaching.  I believe it will be less drama in their marriages than to add pressure in their imperfect lives.  May all married couples have a successful marriage with their guide as love and respect.

"You Don't Have To Cry!"

Sometimes, psychiatrist is not the answer.  It can sometimes only confirm the negativity that the patient already have of oneself.  Sometimes, it only takes an acquaintance, or a friend, or a family member, or someone you have admiration toward to pull you through disappointments simply because of something positive that person said or once said.

It is always good to keep yourself in good health and maintain your cleanness in body and spirit.

"Stoned Love!"

Be there for one another, and let there be no other.  May you always take your commitment in your relationship seriously at all time.

True love only comes once in a lifetime.

"Hi Butter Cups!"

Who said, "Suffering produces endurance.  Endurance produces character.  Character produces faith, and faith will not in the end disappoint". 

Who said that?







Harriet Ross Tubman

"I'm Just Saying!"

Some men may think because a woman put in so many years in a relationship; she may not leave at the first sight of abuse.  That's got to be so far from the true because even a dog will leave if the owner keeps kicking the dog while the dog is down and out.  I'm just saying; I will not stay with any man if he should mistreat me.  I don't care how rich or poor he might be.  If he should physical abuse, verbal abuse, and even mentally, I will not stay with him any longer, and I don't care how many years I put in the relationship already.

I'm out of that relationship if he should even look at me too hard.  Don't get me wrong.  Something can and will be work out just by conversation of the matters, but abuse can not be worked out in my opinon. I'm just saying.

"My Sweet Love!"

When some women says that she doesn't need a man in her life, what she means sometime is that she doesn't need a man in her life right now, and she doesn't have the time that would require to give toward him for that moment.  Sometimes, it takes a strong man to be in a well successful woman life. 

Some women has to make decisions all of the time, and than she hoped that she made the right decisions for all who are involved.   When she has no leader to shelter her with his love, she must claim independence because she has to have her own best interest at heart.  

"Positive Energy Of Love!"

When you are station on a strong solid foundation with yourself, negativity is not going to tumble you.  You must know who you are and must have strong beliefs and concepts who you are physically as well as mentally.  Let your energy flow in a positive matter of love, always!

"I Got So Much Love To Give To You!"

No, I do not believe in the type of lifestyle of uncleanness, so therefore I am not going to fantasize about uncleanness or what is unnatural.  As the saying goes, "Curiosity is what killed the cat". 

"Therefore God, in keeping with the desires of their hearts, gave them up to uncleanness, that their bodies might be dishonored among them,"  Romans 1:24

"What!  Do you not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God's Kingdom?  Do not be misled.  Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men,"   1 Corinthians 6:9

Yes, it does matter.

"Follow, Follow, Follow!"

Follow the yellow brick road to your dreams.  Allow your heart to follow through with every rolling thoughts to a toll free path of passion.  There will be no hollow dreams only true solid dreams to follow.  Follow your passion to your dreams.  Let's not be low on dreams, but let's have full of passion for our dreams to follow.

"When A Woman Loves A Man!"

She is faith and true because she believes he is faith and true to her.  She will put all her beliefs in that man because she has loyalty toward him as well as God!  When a woman loves her husband, there is no greater true love. 

"Listen To My Heart!"

Did you know?  People, who live the single life, have the grand of lifestyles!  No, it is true.  They have the room and space to decide how they want to share their lives with someone or if at all.  Living single is one enjoying oneself and creating for oneself.  Only the true gives a silent relief.

"The Power Of A Wish!"

Domestic Violence is not easy for anyone to deal with or to hear.  Isn't it funny how some women will be caring and supporting of their friends discomfort while other women will laugh their hearts out just because one thought one had the right man. 

"Hearts Full Of Love!"

Yes, too bad there are not many women young or old who can recognize genuine real men who are ready to take on the responsibilities of action to establish their real families.  Now, that they have found love, what are they going to do with love?

"Say What's On Your Mind Tactfully!"

It is very importance to know how our children view different topics because we want to know what they might have seen and heard, so we may have a meaningful conversation with our children on these many different topics.  We must talk about everything because this is how we learn including our children from us.

"On Any Street!"

Everyone thinks at one time or another that the grass is greener with someone else.  It takes a wise one to know that if one takes the time to cultivate one own grass, one too can own an award winning lawn.  Just because the grass looks green; does not mean the grass is green.  One is not going to receive that same loving feeling that one once had with one with another. 

It takes a very special person to realize what one already has and to know that one is not going to find on any street.

"Togetherness!"

It's never any easy choice to make when children are involved.  No one wants to submit one's children to unhappiness.  After all been said and done, there comes a time when all the king's men and all the king's horsemen can not put Mom's and Dad's relationship back together again.  The children will be okay.

Children grow and develop better personalities in safe and peaceful homes whether it's a single parent's or both parents' home.  The bottom line is that Mom and Dad both have to be so much in love with one another to stay together.

"A Story To Tell!"

My hat is off to you again for doing the impossible.  I notice that you always seem to turn the negative into positive which makes it possible.  You are using your popularity and influence to stop the pain, sorrow and shameful acts in our communities.  When you do this, you are saying, "I care; let's talk about it."  We all agree that child abuse subjects are never easy to discussion, but they are necessary that we must discuss them.  It is now the time to clear the air, stop sweeping things under the rugs and just listen.  There is always a story to be told.  I'm listening.

"Lovely Spirit!"

We all have a loving spirit.  Don't let anyone break your loving spirit.  If one thinks one can not matter to you in a loving positive way, one will want to matter to you in an evil  negative way.  Don't ever let negativity get to you because the person who is negative is living within darkness.  Always keep your light lite and shinning bright within you to show that one the way out of that one's own darkness.  You are wonderful; keep shinning bright!

"Hey You, Get Off My Mountain!"

I do believe that it would not be the best thing for Mom and Dad to stay together simply for the children.  If Mom and Dad do not get alone with one another, it will only bring unhappiness to everyone.  I do believe with some couples that they are still in love, but they keep taking advantage of the love that they had for one another.  In order to mature, they have to grow; in order to grow, they have to mature.  Yes, they do grow apart in their relationships, but as they grow their relationship should grow with them.  If their relationships do not grow with them, they are left with the chose to move on.

Some couples allowed the flame to die down or to die out in their relationship.  Not even the children, can save Mom's and Dad's relationship once Mom and Dad lose the "Flame of Passion of Love!"  They once shared with one another in their loving relationship. 

It is up to the loving couples to keep feeding love in their relationship by giving love little by little and by keeping their senses of togetherness.  May they be mates of their souls.     

"Happy Father's Day!"

May all of the wonderful and caring fathers have a good Father's Day!   You know what it takes to be a good and wonderful father even before becoming a father.  May you always look to God in becoming an even better father.

May you enjoy your wonderful dinner.  Happy Daddy's Day!

"I'll Take Door #3, Please!"

Yes, marriage can be more like a hit or miss!  I believe marriage is more than just love.  It takes years to really get to know someone, and  it takes real time to express love with understanding when the going gets tough.  Marriage works out best when two people have a common goal toward accomplishing something with their marriage.  It could be such as starting a family or simple having a peace of mind of one another.  I think marriage is a great institute with couples who have a great understanding of what marriage truly is with all its considerations.

"Love In A Relationship!"

Taking in consideration of a true relationships, I am sure that any woman will think about allowing any man to cheat on her before she keeps taking him back.  He has a cheating heart.  Especially with today standards of living, there are so many sexually transmitted diseases, and the misplaced trust had now developed in the relationships.  We all should know that it is not safe by a long shot to get physical with any one.  Cheating destroys couples and families.  A Couple should not have to tolerate cheating in their relationship.  If couple can not  trust one another in a relationship, the couple does not have a relationship that will last to the test or end of time.  

"Wonderful Sunshine!"

We all should approach our goals with a playful heart.  This is what it takes to maintain focus on our goals.  I know that it should not come to must effort.  Especially, it's like play already.  Reaching your goals feel like play, and it is much fun at that, so maintain your focus on all of your goals with a much needed playful heart.

"Ain't No Mountain High Enough!"

No matter where you are; no matter how far.  Just call my call name.  I will be there in a hurry!  Love, there is no in between either you love or you don't.  Love, once again is a feeling of appreciation.  We all must look for love in the right places and from the right people.

"Moms, You Are Appreciated!"

You are appreciated for yesterday, today, and tomorrow.  It's the love and kindness you give so freely in the line of responsibility.  You will always be appreciated forever more!  It's okay if you take the day off from your regular mothering duties.  It's a vacation day for you.

"Happy Loving and Caring Mother's Day!"  

"Lovable!"

It is so important that marriage couples communicate their feelings about different things, so they may know how to comfort each one in time of stress.  They both need to know each one likes and dislikes as well as wanted and unwanted because they are one flesh.  Not only may marriage couples have a pleasurable explosion physically but spiritually as well.

"Share My Love!"

I have learned that one should not take one's relationship for granted, and certainly one should not take it too seriously.  The relationship should be enjoyed by both partners and laugh together often.

"Make That Move!"

Who said that a woman can't be supportive to her man and still be the "bread winner" in her home?  When a woman earns an income to support her family, this is real hard work.  A Lot of time the only income that's coming into the home, is by the woman's earnings.  If the man is bringing in an income, he sometime feels threatening because he is bringing in less money than his woman.  Some men feels less than a man in some cases.  Some men just can not handle their women working outside of their homes. 

It's might be less of chances in running into one another during lunch hours.  I suppose!

"When The Lovelight Starts To Shine Through!"

One wants to have the other one's trust.  When one adore one, one only has eyes for one. If one does not have trust in one, one has nothing.  One trusts one to be committed in the relationship if one choose  to accept the relationship.  One must be able to trust one without any doubts.  It is important that either one misuse that trust.  May they became as "One."

When you love or really care for someone, you always want to see that person happy!

"Great Love!"

The funny thing about relationships whether you are married or single; it doesn't really matter what level the relationship is on.  There is always someone you still have to answer.  No one, mate has all the answers.  It should be quite interesting to hear what the other mate thoughts, ideals, opinions, suggests, comments, beliefs, concepts, theories, and of course values on any relationship levels.

"Sweet Togetherness Of Love!

 

Everyone wants togetherness, peace, and harmony in one's relationship.  In a relationship, it must be where peaceful water flow.  One must be able to hear the birds singing sweet melodies in one's relationship and see a bright sunny day of love.  The relationship has be like another wonderful and beautiful day at love.  One must devote one's time and energy to making a more peaceful war free relationship of being together.

"Let It Flow!"

I do believe; it is important to know before entering in a relationship how many sexual partners that person has been with sexually.  At least an idea of sexual partners, the person has been with sexually.  One can not go wrong.  It would be only fair to reveal things in one's past.  I believe any one who has engaged in a high-risk lifestyle; one would do well to submit voluntarily to an AIDS blood test before entering in a courtship.  I also believe; it would not be wrong for any one to request an AIDS blood test of one who has in the past engaged in sexual promiscuity.

"How Will I Know?!"

Many women enters into a relationship with the possibility of marriage, and men, sometimes, enters into a relationship purely for sex.  Men should not go into a relationship unless there is a possibility of marriage. 

It will save a lot of heartbreaks and tears on both sides when the intentions are right.

"Music Is On My Mind!"

Music is important to cultures.  Music can be use to relax us to escape in a comfort zone.  Music sets the tone for any moods or events.  We all need music to think and grow.  Music is the key to happiness.  Music releases stress.  Music has been said to have calm the savage breast.
Personally, I like to burn French Vanilla aroma candles when I'm sewing, drawing, reading, writing, or even sometime just relaxing with nice music in the background (instrumental).  Real music lives on and on and on!

"You Can't Stand It!"

 I honestly believe that divination is not just some harmless fun.  The Bible tells us that fortune-teller and wicked spirits go hand in hand.  "A demon of divination" (Acts 16:16-19).  All form of spiritualisms are disapproved by God. (Deuteronomy 18:10-12). 

"It's All About Love!"

Now, only your sweet love can give me joy.  You are not just a want; you are an absolute need.

"...You're wonderful and kind.
You're forever gently on my mind.
Even in my sleep, I have wonderful dreams.
You're  always there speaking softly.
It seems telling me how much I mean to you..."


"You've Been So Wonderful To Me" sung by Diana Ross and The Supremes   From the  cd  LOVE CHILD

Isn't love grand?

"Amen!"

Keep doing what you are doing because God is definitely with us.  Keep being strong and having courage.  If we are made to feel ashamed about our unfavorable choices, maybe we will make better choices with ours lives and with others.

"Ashamed" as in awareness, we must be aware of all our choices.  We have the capability to think to make better decisions in our lives.  In so many other words, think before we do.

"It's Not Easy To Say Goodbye!"

When you love someone, you shall always love and honor that person in a loving and caring way.  Life does not claim to be clear cut.  May you always find the reason to love someone, and always look for the good in one another.  Life is so much better when you find that common place to share with joy.  You never can say goodbye, but you can always say, "I love you!"

"Sweet And Gentle Love!"

I believe if one wants out of a relationship, one should be able to leave without the drama.  I might be alone, but one thing I am not is lonely.  I would rather be by myself than to go through a whole lot of sorrow and pain.  I want happiness too not only love.  As long as I have love and respect from a partner, I got all the happiness in the world. 

"It's All In Love!"

"Foolishness is tied up with the heart of a boy; the rod of discipline is what will remove it far from him." (Proverbs 22:15) 

This rod can simply be sitting down and discussing with the child what was not expected from the child. Children get a better understanding from things which are discussed rather than the act of violence.  

"Of The Heart!"

As women, we should learn to pay more attention to "the secret person of the heart" than we do to our physical appearance by plastic surgeries in some cases.  No, I am not acting out on any crazy or deranged emotions, but I am simply saying that all men should learn to treat all women in a kind and respectful way by their visions.

"And do not let your adornment be that of the external braiding of the hair and of the putting on gold ornaments or the wearing of outer garments, but let it be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible [apparel] of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God." 1 Peter 3: 3,4

"Do You Believe?"

Do you believe in love of first sight?  It is crazy; I know, but love can be just that crazy.  Love can hit you like a ton of bricks.  It can sweep you off your feet.  Love can make you fall deep into love like free falling. Love can drown you in a sea of love.  It can even blind you.  Love can have a hold on you and never seem to let you go.  Love can make you feel helpless.  It's like quicksand.  Love can conquer all.  It can be like an army of cavalry; here it comes to save the day! 

However, love can be a beautiful and wonderful thing when you respect love.  Now, I ask you.  Do you believe in love at first sight at the first sighting of your love?

Dream! Dream! Dream!

We must all learn to dream big than stop dreaming, and put that dream to reality.