"Sweet Forget Me Nots!"

I believe there are a lot of women who had good men in their lives, but they could not recognize them because of the rose colored glasses. Some women grew up to be 'daddy's little girl' well into adulthood. Daddy is to the rescue; daddy is always there to lend a helping hand. I believe some fathers have cripple their own daughters. By this, I mean all they have to do is share a little tear and get their way, not so. This type of behavior is not going to work or always work with the men in their lives. No one likes a cry baby!

My sisters and I would say, "He's a good man!" just by looking at him. My grandmother would always say, "You all wouldn't know a good man if you stare him in the face!" We would say, "What does that mean?", to one another, "What is it that Madear is trying to say!"

I know now what my grandmother was saying! You have to get to know the man first to give him the chance to "prove" what he can or can't do. Not what he "looks" like he can or can't do. Which is alway the key, is to get to know. That's the key!