"Got To Be A Do Right!"

What will be my purpose of marrying? Besides getting my groove on in the bedroom, it will be for my peace of mind such as my mental, emotional, and spiritual state. It will also be to share my interests, good conversations to inspire my continuous growth. I will than have my love twin.

My mental state is to have that relax and calm down feeling in a true marriage. Someone who would allow me to think and reason out for myself. I too feel that I have a valuable opinion. Someone, I can keep my emotions in tact and to have a grand old time without any spiritual guilt. I know that he is not going to share all of my interests maybe a few or just one. As long as, we show each other, "I like you; you like me," we got a hit!

I will get marry only for the "Love and Respect!"

"Love From Above!"

Whenever I use the phase "Put God First," I am saying that I put God before any false idols or any false spiritual means such as fortune tellers and so far. When I have a problem, I turn to God in prayer to assist me in finding the best solution for my problem. If it appears to be out of my hands, I put it in God's hands and leave it there. To put God first, you have to seek God first and do something.

Everyone should develop a close relationship with God. God is our heavenly father because He created us. Just like a human father can give life to his child.

"An Appreciation Of Love!"

I think monogamy is very important in a relationship especially before the possibility of marriage. I believe to truly have God's blessing in one's marriage, is not to have sex before marriage. Over the years, I have come to realize that it is the best way to beginning a happy and long fulfilled marriage.

Have you ever wonder; why some marriages break up after the couple was married for a few months, and the couple was together for years? Have you ever wonder why the sex stop right after the couple get married? When things are not done in the order of things, it has a great possibilities of changing up.

Marriage needs a clean slate without any expectations. You play and learn as you go. Marriage is a team of three: you, your mate, and God. Now play life balls! Watch out! There is a curve ball, and it's coming at you!

"A Submitted Lifestyle"

If I were married, I would rather be divorced than to submit to a swinger lifestyle. The divorce rate would just have to increase more. It would be like, " I love you, Babe, but I love myself more." This type of marriage is still an unhealthy marriage, and being married for years in an agreed upon unfaithful marriage, is no marriage at all. There will always be one of the couple who will favor the lifestyle more than the other, and the other will go on hurting deep down inside in silent. Sometime, it is easier to stay with someone when you know that they are not about anything!

There are so many sexual transmitted diseases out there that I still do not know all the names for them. There are no known cures for some of those sexual transmitted diseases. Playing around with such a burning fire, somebody or everybody will get burnt even with protection. Which mate will take the blame when this lifestyle means death at some point and time? In my opinion, it could be the prefect crime!

Who God has blessed you, one is only for you and not for sharing!

"Falsehood Of Romance!"

A player of romance is like a gambler. He gambles with women's hearts, minds, money and true existence. A player will never give up his women not even on his death bed. This is the only game he has ever known to play, and he thinks that he plays a good game. A player will never admit that he is a player because this is how he survives with his cheating ways. He will never be truly satisfied with any mate he plays.

A cheater is like a coward little mice. He will go and snatched up the cheese while the cat's back is turned, and than run back where he thinks it is safe for the moment. He is mentally and unhealthy mate.

Player, player, play at your own risk. Game Over!

Happy Heart Day!

It's okay to like and to love. This is what the world need now a little bit of happiness. With kindness flowing from our hearts, I love you; you love me. Roses are red; violets are blue. Sugar is sweet and so are you! Hugs and Kisses! You're my Honey! " Honey Bee (keep On Stinging Me)"

And that's just the love you have for yourself, but do share!

"The King's Heart!"

I strongly believe when a man gets married, it is his Wedding Day! Think of the wedding day like this. The man is the king. It is the king's day to marry a woman such as you to become his queen. To have and to hold a woman like you, it's a day of honor on his behalf. The wedding day becomes his day when he truly becomes a King Of Heart to marry a woman with such splendor at his side.

It is he that should feel so honored. Days like this; does come so often. It's his grand day! "All through the nights!"