"Precious One!"

There should be accountability from both parents of their hearts to provide for their own offspring. Their offspring has to be cared for emotionally, physically, financilly, and spiritually of sincere love

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The parents are to come together in providing the needs and wants for their beautiful and loving child without told to do so. This is no longer about the couple who became unwilling parents. How much money it takes to raise a child? Priceless!

"It Just Takes Two, You And Me!"

To raise healthy well balance emotional children, we have a better chance as parents when we are contributing to their children welfare. I have learned that I can not be a father to my son. No matter how hard or much I try to be, I can only be who I am meant to be and that's his mother. I certainly can teach him strength and courage from a woman's point of view, but I can never teach him the strenght and courage of a man's point of view. It takes a man and a woman to raise a fine young man as well as it takes a man and a woman to raise a respectable young lady because of our own point of views.

"With Love!"

A submissive person does not mean for one to give up one's human right to think for oneself, nor does it means to wait on someone hand and foot willingly or unwillingly. A healthy way of thinking of submission would be for one to open up one's heart to trust and to know that one has one best interest at heart.

Husbands who believe with godly devotion know that headship is not a dictatorship, but it is a partnership of love and caring for the family. A husband who exercises headship does for the benefit, not for himself, of caring for the interest of his family.

"Be Strong And Hold On!"

There are so many men who confuse a woman being strong as physical power for combat when strong lies in a woman emotions. Yes, emotions are her maintaining strength and will power to carry her on with life challenges.

A strong independent woman is a woman who can hold her own without collapsing under life pressures. Once life has tested a woman strength, she is no longer a match for the ordinary love affair. He has got to be a god-fearing man who does not think he is God.

Happy New Year of 2010!

"Traveling That Narrow Road"

We all have found ourselves standing at the crossroad wondering which way to go without the option of "keep straight ahead".

We are born with a brain to know the different between right from wrong as well as good from bad. To do what is right, it is like traveling on a narrow road. One is not going to find many people traveling on a narrow road, but if one is doing what is wrong, it is like traveling on a wide road because everybody is traveling on that wide road.

Whatever road one chooses to travel, one is met with whatever it is on the that road. When one realizes one is traveling on the wide road, one may find one's way back to the narrow road by asking God for direction and guidance. It's all about choosing to travel on the right road of life.

"Mission Accomplished!"

Yes, it is possible for today's woman to allow a man to lead her. As set in her ways as she may be, it's possible. He will have to be a great man in many ways; such as, he must have good moral living standards, he must be a good financial provider, and he must have a common goal to share with her.

It takes a great man to lead a great woman. Most of all, he has to be dependable and reliable. There is no other way. True love never fail when the mission is accomplished.

"Team Of Marriage"

In a true committed relationship, I believe one should not run at the first sign of trouble. Marriage should be team work. And there shouldn't be any one else permitted on the team except for God. The game plans and strategies of a marriage have to be established before entering into the marriage. Marriage should be a team play of peace of mind, finance and children. The team has to be ready at all time against its opponents. I believe marriage is truly a team against the world.