"Here Comes Love!"

I think monogamy is not what one should be focusing on at the beginning of the relationship, but what one has in common with one another.  Everything else will fall into place.  It takes a long period of time to get to know someone likes and dislikes.  Sex should not be a variable.  This is if you want God to remain in the relationship before the marriage occur.  Sex is the bonus of the marriage.  Great sex comes with a strong sense of who one is and the person who one marries.

My top ten on what I look for in a man are:  Sincerity, Honesty, Forgiving, Trustworthy, Understanding, Patient, Romanticizing, Humble, Business minded, and Cute!

"Love Injection!"

I do believe if men are heard and can release some of their pain, they too can become better men in society.  They will be best listeners, husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, nephews, uncles, cousins, friends, and so forth.  Men too should feel free to discuss the topics of being abused by wives, girlfriends, mothers, sisters, daughters, nieces, aunts, females cousins, females co-worker, teachers, and so forth.  Once men know that they are not alone, they can begin the process of healing within themselves.  They will be more comfortable to discuss the topic more openly with family and friends.  More importantly and hopefully, the women will understand that this is not love.  The women should seek the help and begin the healing process also.

No one should be physically, verbally, sexually, or emotionally abused by anyone.  Especially by women, they loved.

"You Are Committed!"

 I find that married men do not approach me at all.  Personally, I have always made it my business to stay away from married men.  And if I should find out that he lied to me about not being married, he would be out of there because he lied to me.  There is no love for a liar. It will make no different how long I had known him, or what little love, I had gain for him.  The love would be destroyed.  When a man is married, he still have that union and promise with his wife. The courts would recognize the union.  To me, I believe the divorce must be finalized first.   There is no other way.

It is truly up to that husband to give that final loyalty love and respect to the woman who serves as his wife.

"Being Together!"

"Love is; wait a minute.  Love is..."  I know that the love it took to get one; it is going to take that very same love to keep one.  This is conditional love.  This kind of love is constantly conditioned.  Love is patient.  One has to give one that period to learn to trust one.  The perfect bond of union is love. (Colossians 3:14)

"Say, I want to mourn.  Let me mourn for love.  I want to mourn for Love."  sung by Al Green