"Turn Back The Hands Of Time!"

 

To:  All divorces and separations

"If I could turn back the hands of time..."  "...because I LOVE YOU!"  sung by Tyrone Davis  

 

"_____, Baby!"

"...I believe in you.  Let's see if you believe in me..."

"...I forgot to mention one little thing (a ring).  I don't mean on the telephone _____, Baby..."

"...Tonight?????!"


Sung by Eartha Kitt

 

"Family Affair!"

It's a family affair.  Enjoy your family with much happiness.  Teach your children what's right from wrong as well as human rights.  Teach your children well, and they shall learn well. 

May your children keep bring you much joy.  It's a family affair with much happiness. 

"Love Got Everything To Do With It!"

There are many saying of a broken heart; such as, "Who need a heart when a heart can be broken?", or "I sold my heart to the junkman.", or " I'm gonna let my heart do the walking." 

Yes, love has everything to do with it, but it comes a time when one has to break away with one's own heart.  One's own love heals one's own heart.



"What Love Got To Do With It"  sung by Tina Turner
"I Sold My Heart To The Junkman" sung by Dinah Washington
"I'm Gonna Let My Heart Do The Walking" sung by The Supremes

"Communication of Love!"

Say, "Good morning." in the morning.
Discuss the day activities.
Call to say, "I love you!" throughout the day.
Have dinner together.
Say, "Good night." at bedtime.

And then it should be, "Oh, what a beautiful morning!  Oh, what a beautiful day!"

"The Making Of You!"

"Add a little sugar,
honeysuckle roses,
a great big expressiveness of happy...
These are making of you, and it's true..."
Sung by Curtis Mayfield

"A Lifetime Of Love!"

Yes, there is such a thing as a lifetime of a mate; however, we all are not going to experience such love because that kind of love is not for the "disbelievers".  "You got to believe in something!"  Why not believe in your lifetime of love?  Taking the time to find the right mate, is much rewarding than falling in and out of love throughout the seasons.  Believe!



P.S.  This is not about the colors in the flag.  This is about the love for the people and their loss of innocent lives. Our hearts and souls are with you, Paris.  You are not alone!
   

"If We Got Nothing...!"

"..., we got 'Love'!"    Song by Babyface


And the world still goes around.

"Love On The Mediterranean Sea!"

Well, isn't that the way we hope all marriages should start off in their first year. With romance and adventurous at sea, it's smooth sailing. 

May love keeps the married couples together!

"Apples And Oranges!"

"Apples and oranges, cream and butter, tell me the one of your true lovin'!"

Yes, true love always has a feeling of "child play."  It's the silliness and playfulness of true love which are needed in order to grow to the seriousness of love.

"Love On The Rise!"

With love on the rise, there are many more beautiful love affair around us.  People who care for the love of their lives as well as others.  People who have learnt what it takes to be in committed relationships.  People who want to do the right things in their relationships.  

Yes, we were not meant to live along!  With the right kind of loving, how can anyone loses.  Love is always on our side. 

"Freeway of Love!"

"We goin' riding  on the freeway and you can't stop that."   song by Aretha Franklin

Just drop the question and go!

"So Special!"

The wedding ceremony is so special.  It should be special for the bride and bridegroom because they are marrying greatness in their hearts and souls.  It's for a lifetime of commitment if possible.

May they share a lifetime of partnership with all the fine trimmings in their marriage.  "Is so special!"  

"You Are A Winner!

Couples should think of themselves as winners.  They have a winning love for one another as well for themselves.  How wonderful, they are.

 Do have a winning relationship. 

"What's In A Leader?!"

Is gracefulness.  A leader must be able to lead the people who are not in total agreement.  A leader have to be able to listen to others' concerns and make the best possible decision for them all.  A leader must know that a leader is not the focus of attention;  it is the followers who are the focus of attention at all times.  And a leader must know that a leader is not the only leader who is capable to lead.

"Let Me Entertain You...!"

"...Let me make you smile."  I find that the GOP candidates are just that.  It remind me of the once hit television show "American Idol".  Sometimes, the voters would allow the worst singer to stay on week after week just for the pure entertainment of its all.

"Let me make you smile!"  I would laugh if it was not so sad.

"Love Twins!"

Have you ever notice that married couples are like love twins.  They are like two peas in a pot as the saying goes.  One is unable to tell them apart giving by their attitudes.  They act, speak, and think the same way concerning important matters.  They understand and know one another equally. 

In many occasions, it started from the first time they ever laid eyes on one another.  A love that is lasting.  May there be many more love twins of marriages.    

"All marriages need motivation!"

"A Labor Of Love!"

I'll assure; we all will agree that marriage take a great deal of work.  By work, I mean dedication, understanding, love and kindness by no means in this order or such a short list. 

Marriage should be a comfort zone of labor of love.  Marriage is a team play, and we all should be cheerleaders of marriages because I can assure you that marriage was not an easy play for none of them.

 

"Partners Of Love!"

Some married couples are married partners for life.   There are partner of survivals who never remarry again.  That says a lot about the partners of love.

"Very Special!"

 

Very special love,
Very special place,
Very special day,
Very special commitment,
And very special get together, it' all in the name of "Love!"

For all the beautiful loves!

"Love Is Beautiful!"

Love is beautiful.  It's like a Winter snow storm on a full moon glowing night.  It's like birds singing on a early Spring morning.  It's like a long hot Summer day with no ending in sight.  It's like looking up at a tree to only to realize that Fall has changed some of the leaves in colors a firecracker orange, red, and yellow.  And in between every season, it's like, "I Feel Like It's Raining All Over The World!"

 May your marriage has the beautiful love of seasons!

"Smooth Sailing!"

Smooth sailing is how most married couples want their marriages to go, and it shall go with all the right loving.  Why not, with the right understanding, financing, and relaxing, it's a smooth sailing marriage. 


We all admire and desire smooth sailing marriages with much recreation. 

"Heart To Heart!"

We all want to be loved by someone special, and we all want to love someone special.  But if there is no one special around, we have to be that someone special to ourselves.  Yes, it is the love of self.  It is always better to wait for love than to rush into love. 

Someone special will come in our lives in due time, but in the meantime and in between time, we have to be that someone special to ourselves by doing the things we like to do, by the foods we like to eat, by the places we like to go, by the clothes we like to wear, by games we like to play, and by some many other things which make us smile with much gladness.  Our day will come to share our love "Heart to Heart!"    .

"Taking A Chance On Love!"

When it comes to the love of one's heart, it is the "Matter of the Heart!"   One must know that the heart can be treacherous.  One loves at one's own risk of a broken heart.  The reward is to love until love rewards one back with a lovely mate for years to come.

One must never stop betting on love with one's own heart. 

"A Heart Of Love!"

How well do you care for your mate?  Do you care enough to look out for your mate best interest?  Do you share in your mate interest as well as your mate share in your interest for things?  Are you willing to keep your love right for your mate?  And are you truly in love with your mate?

The answers shall come to you in an instant.   

"Love On The Front Line!"

Where a married couple feels love for one another; it is safe to assume that there is a happy home, and mean it not always but most of the times!  

"Love On A Two-Way Street!"

"I found love on a two-way street, and lost it on a lonely highway... True love will never die.  So, I've been told, but now I must cry it's finally good-by, I know...  To be fooled is a hurtin' pain.  To be loved and fooled in a cryin' shame while I bear the blame..."    Sung by The Moments

Divorces are never easier.  The same reason for one to be married could be the same reason for one to be divorced.

"Hey, Dad!"

Thank you for your love and kindness.  Thank you for looking out and protecting your family.  And thank you for your patience and understanding.  Every year, you become a better father.  Thank, Dad!

To all the wonderful fathers, keep teaching your children right from wrong, and may they always listen.

"Happy Father's Day!" 

"When The Lovelight Starts Shining Through His Eyes!"

"His eyes are like a guiding light for one to find ones way to the seashore of his heart.  Where there is no more rough sea water of the heart, so shall it appears."   by GlowR




"When The Lovelight Starts Shining Through His Eyes"  Sung by The Supremes

"Just My Imagination!"

     It's "Oh, So Wrong!" for a married woman to claim; she has a crush on a man who is not her husband while living with her husband.  Not judging, just nearly stating the facts, Ms.  Fun and games, it is not because if given the chance, if the chance presented itself, if the timing was right, and if the moment was to arrive, adultery could and would be made.

     Isn't that how many love affair get started with a crush?  Your crush should always be for your husband, and your husband's crush should always be for you.  It does not matter how long a couple has been married.  What matter is that they are deeply in love with one another, and they will not hurt one another with silly little games which can and will hurt to time indefinitely. 

"Love The One You're With!"

"Husbands love your wives, and wives love your husbands."


"You got to love the one you are with!"

"The Price Of Freedom!"

May we say a pray for our love ones who believe in Justice and Peace for all of us.  They laid down there lives in a good fight for all of us.

May we not take justice and peace for grant, but  may we live up to them as well as our love ones.


Memorial Day   (tomorrow)

"Here We Go, Again!"

"I keep coming back to you!  Of all the _____ in the world, I keep coming back to you!"  Sung by The Isley Brothers

That's only because the ground work has been done.  It is all about the foundation!  Not a strong wind or a big bad wolf, can blow this love that I have for you down.  "I keep coming back to you!"  That's why, "Here we go, again, again, and again!"

"No More Wirier Hanger!!"

Good or bad, mothers always want the best for us and always will.  Whether we agreed with them or not, mothers always seem to understand what we are going through.  It is always good to acknowledge all mothers in what and who they are, do, and become mindfully in every day life.

May today be a day full of caring of love.

"Happy Mother's Day!"

"Hot Stuff!"

That's what marriage should be hot for one another.  The love should be burning fire for one another in a loving, caring, and sharing way.  Each looks should say, "I love and want you!"  There should be more loving and trust in a marriage than in any past relationships.  It's true no two marriages are the same, but they all share that common bond of togetherness. 

"Don't Go Breaking My Heart!"

In other words, "You may not ever be given the chance to ever fix my heart ever again forever more!"

So, don't go breaking each other hearts which can cause much grievances for two hearts as one heart.

"Game Changer!"

Marriage is the game changer.  It will always change the game up on couples.

It says, "Can you come out to play?  Just the two of us!"

"A Sunday Kind Of Love!"

Love can be as "Easy as a Sunday Morning"!  A little history of Sunday, it is the seventh day and the last day of the week, efficiently.  Love can sometime express the same characteristic of Sunday.  Love can be pure relaxation, clear of thoughts, no need to hurry, not going anywhere, and not doing anything kind of love.  This love can put one in a comfortable bliss.  It's a Sunday kind of love! 

"Love!"

"Remembering the greatest love!"

"May I!"

If one says, "May I" to one's mate, I am sure one can do or wear whatever one wants to do or wear.  One can eat chicken with one's fingers at the dinner table if one says, "May I!", before doing so.

It is always better to know your mate and how your mate feels about different things in general life.

"Love Comfort!"

What a wife wears to bed is so important to her marriage.  Especially, during the first five years of marriage, it can and will be detrimental to the marriage undercover, of course.  Wearing something comfortable while one is feeding the baby, or going shopping, or simply cleaning house, is totally different from what one chooses to wear to one's marital bed for comfort.

I believe all husbands believe that their marital beds are a grand affair.  They also believe that theirs wives should dress appropriately for the grand affair. 

Remember, Victoria has a secret with wings.  I can tell you this.  It is not all you need to know on how to wear sweatpants to a "grand affair marital bed".  Just saying; nevertheless, it will keep one out of "Sweatpants and Satin Bonnets Divorce Court!"

"Love Will Find A Way!"

One may say that children don't make a relationship which is true; however, children don't "Stop No Show" as well as baby's mother and baby's father. 

They all are looking for happiness which love will always find a way! 

"The First Time!"

"I thought the sun rolled in your eyes..."

Sung by Roberta Flack
"The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face."

I believe every wives remember the first time they ever saw their husbands' faces, and so would the husbands remember the first time they ever saw their wives' faces.  I do believe!

"No Sunshine!"

Divorce is like to some people "One less egg to fry!"  Don't let that happen to you.  Divorce is a sad place where happiness use to be as "One".

"That Kind Of Guy!"

"He's the kind of guy that would say, Hey Baby, let's get away.  Let's go some place, huh?  Where, I don't care!"

"Day Dreaming"  written and sung by Aretha Franklin

"How Deep Is Your Love?!"

Is your love deep as a box of chocolates,
or is your love deep as a room filled with roses,
or is your love deep as the deep blue sea,
or is your love deep as the highest mountain,
or is your love deep as a king is denouncing his throne for love.

No matter, how deep your love is as long as it is a healthy deep love.

"Until That Day!"

"Until that day, I will be loving you." 

This means to me until what ever, I will be loving you. Until that day comes, I 'm loving you.  It will have to be some grand day when I stop loving you.  This is what marriages should be made of this kind of love.   




A song sung by Steve Wonder who is one of the "Wonders" of music.

"She's Your Queenin'!"

Beautiful and graceful,
intelligent and wise,
a good wife she is
who can think on her feet.


"Let's play Super Bowl XLIX!"

"Sweet Talk Of Love!"

"Sugar Pie", "Honey Bunch", "Baby Love", "Pumpkin", "Love", just to name a few, are sayings of a loving heart.  They are sweetness to the soul.  

"A fountain does not cause the sweet and bitter to bubble out of the same opening, does it?"  James 3:11

"I Do Web!"

When one makes a vow to love and cherish, one is making a promise to love and cherish one's mate.   To do that, one must focus on one's promises to keep toward one's mate.  When one says, "I do!"  It shall be done!